Is your cat ignoring you? Here are possible reasons. Illustration: Petepop
Does it seem like your cat is ignoring you? Cats are not like dogs and can be more independent, but if your cat suddenly changes behavior, it can seem strange.
If you want your cat to stop ignoring you and pay attention again, you need to figure out why.
There are many reasons your cat might seem to be ignoring you. Here are the most common ones, according to experts:
1. Your Cat Wants Some Alone Time
Probably the simplest and most common reason is that your cat just doesn’t feel like giving you attention right now. Cats are independent creatures and have their own feelings and moods.
If your cat doesn’t feel like being petted or asking for a treat, chances are he’ll simply ignore you and continue doing what he prefers, which might include taking a nap.
If your cat is doing his natural thing and relaxing, but that doesn’t involve you, don’t insist on unwanted interaction with him. In this case, it’s better to leave your kitty alone and let him come to you when he wants attention.
2. Older Cats May Not Realize You Want Their Attention
Some cats have more significant reasons for not responding to you. For instance, if your cat has gotten a bit older, there’s a chance he may not be hearing or seeing as well as he used to.
It’s quite possible that your kitty isn’t ignoring you but simply hasn’t realized you’re trying to interact.
Moving a little slower and more deliberately can help these kitties become aware of you, and then they may decide whether they want to pay attention. If this becomes a trend, talk to your veterinarian about it so they can check for underlying medical conditions.
Of course, if your cat is acting lethargic or doesn’t respond when you try to get his attention, call your veterinarian immediately, as this could be an emergency.
3. Your Cat Might Be Afraid of You
Many cats choose to ignore something they consider a threat or that stresses them out. If you’ve punished your cat in the past, or even shouted at him, he might now see you as a potential threat.
Your cat doesn’t know if your intentions are good or bad, so he tries to ignore you. Sometimes, just accidentally stepping on your cat is enough to trigger this reaction. In such cases, cats often flee if you keep requesting their attention.
If your cat runs away, hides, and tries to avoid you, back off and give him some space. Let some time pass and try to win his affection back with some gentle scratches or treats.
Cats have long memories, and something you did that displeased them can be remembered weeks and months later. The best thing to do is to remember that you should never discipline a cat with punishment.
4. Your Cat Might Not Be Feeling Well
It’s not uncommon for cats to become more reclusive if they aren’t feeling well, especially if an illness is developing. As cats age, they may develop a form of cognitive dysfunction similar to Alzheimer’s disease in humans.
If your cat is showing any signs of concern beyond just being distant, like drinking more water than usual, having less appetite, or behaving differently in any way, consult your veterinarian.
Kittens often retreat when illness is developing, and the sooner you uncover the underlying issue, the better. With a bit of effort and help from your veterinarian, you can understand their behavior and address the problem.
5. Your Cat Might Be Upset About Something
Cats seem very independent and sometimes distant, but the truth is most cats have delicate emotions. The slightest insult, like petting another cat, can make them jealous, and as a response, they snub you.
Most cats are quite forgiving and eager to have everyone back in their good graces. To help him “forgive” you, some treats or bribes in the form of canned food should solve the issue in your relationship.
Illustration: Petepop. This content was created with the help of AI and reviewed by the editorial team.
